The best way to know the secret in winning is to look at the characteristics of all-time winners. And when I say winners, what I mean to say is people who are considered successful in their chosen profession. If you will notice, all these winners have one thing in common and that is their good feeling energy. They feel good about themselves and they somehow have this special talent of transmitting good energy to other people. My boss used to tell me that you cannot give something that you don’t have. It’s hard to get encouragement from someone who is discouraged. In the same way, it’s impossible to radiate positive energy when you have a bunch of negative baggage inside.
There is truly a strange connection between feeling good and winning in life. And this connection has been one of the underlying premises of all the inspirational books of all time. In fact, the link of feeling good and success have been ancient mystery. In fact, when I first realize how feeling good helped me attract opportunities, it scared me.
I have personally experienced this many times before. When I feel good, it’s impossible for me not to close a deal. I rarely gamble because it’s not really for me. But when I do, I always win. I don’t play it when I need the money. I only play when I feel good. So, I realized that the better we feel, the higher our vibration gets. However, I also realize that the more desperate we become, the lower our vibration gets. And when your vibration is low, it’s hard to win in anything. One of the many benefits of feeling good is making other people show their best self to you and it’s because of the good vibration you radiate. I’ve dealt with a lot of people in the past who has very bad reputation but they showed me their best self.
This is one reason why I encourage everyone to include feeling good as part of their daily routine. When you feel good, the higher your vibration gets and the more possibilities you can create. Below are some tips to feeling good and radiating higher vibration.
1. Self-love. This is most of the times the root of frustration and even depression. Most of relationships fail because of lack of self-love. People feel that other people are responsible to make them feel validated, from looks to their capabilities and talents. People always need approval and encouragement. There is seriously nothing wrong with that. But if other people’s opinions become a need for you to move forward, you will soon find yourself frustrated. Another thing is if you don’t love yourself, you will struggle trusting people. It will be hard for you to believe and accept love from other people because you don’t feel like you truly deserve to be loved. People think that self-love has something to do with being selfish and putting yourself first in everything but it doesn’t really work that way.
Self-love is being able to love and accept others genuinely, the way you do to yourself. It’s simply sharing the energy that you have within. This is why it’s hard to love other people when you don’t love yourself. It’s hard sharing something that you don’t have.
Self-love is actually the true freedom and independence. When you love yourself, you don’t need people to like you. You will free yourself from pleasing people. And when you start loving and accepting yourself, you’ll find yourself more interested in your own evolution. You will never have the time to please or hating people. And in the process, you will just simply learn to take care of yourself and want nothing but the best for you.
2. Compassion. When you feel compassionate towards other people, it results to generous act that never fails to convert into positive feeling. They say that there is receiving in giving. For me, giving is an act that lets the giver receives a positive energy. Compassion multiplies your energy effortlessly and makes you feel good or even better about yourself.
3. Letting Go. Letting go is as simple as trusting the process. Letting go is finally deciding to stop fighting against life and circumstances and just let things flow. Letting go also means that leaving the people that no longer serve your purpose. It means growing and accepting. It is seeing that everything that has been happening in your life is for the divine synchronicity to improve you. When you start letting go and stop forcing the things that don’t work, that’s when the real shift in your life begins and you’ll start feeling good on your own.
4. Goals. It is very important to always have goals. It’s one of the things that make me feel good every day. It’s hard to feel good when you don’t have anything to look forward to. Goals and dreams make life so exciting. And when you are enthusiastic about life, winning becomes easy. - M.D.
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